Relationship breakdown

If your relationship has ended, it’s important to think about your housing options before moving out of your home.

If it’s safe to do so, try to stay in your current home until you have worked out what your next steps will be and where you will live. Leaving too soon can sometimes make it harder to resolve housing issues.

If you are at risk of domestic abuse or do not feel safe at home, see our domestic abuse advice.

If you own your home

If you or your partner own your home, it is usually best to get legal advice before making any decisions about moving out or selling the property.

Before leaving, make sure you have somewhere suitable to live. If you are thinking about selling your home, try to arrange your next accommodation before the sale is completed.

If you rent your home

If you rent your home with your partner, your options will depend on your tenancy agreement.

Before moving out, make sure you understand your rights and responsibilities, including who is responsible for paying the rent. You should also tell your landlord about any changes to who is living in the property.

Shelter provide information about your housing options if a relationship breaks down.

If you have children

If you have children, it is important to think about what will be best for them and where they will live. In many cases, it is best for children to remain in the family home where possible. 

If you are worried about your housing situation, especially if the home is owned or rented in your partner's name, you should seek legal advice.